Navigating the Emotional Impact of Redundancy
When redundancy happens, it can trigger a surge of emotions, and every one of them is normal. For some, the first response is shock or disbelief. It feels surreal, unfair, and difficult to process. Others move quickly into self blame or guilt, questioning their performance or replaying decisions they wish they had made differently. For many technology and business leaders, their role is deeply tied to their identity, so when it disappears, it can feel as if a part of who they are has been taken with it.
Anxiety is also common. Concerns about finances, stability, reputation, and the next step can weigh heavily. And sometimes, there is an unexpected feeling of relief. Redundancy can remove you from an environment that was no longer right for you, creating space to reset and realign.
Here is the most important truth. These emotions are real, but they are also temporary. They do not define your worth, and they do not determine your future. The goal is not to suppress them, but to acknowledge them, process them with intention, and then set boundaries so they do not become your ongoing identity or mindset.
If you are between roles, this awareness helps you move through transition with self compassion rather than self criticism. If you are already exploring your next step, it gives you the clarity to make decisions from stability instead of fear. And if you are still processing the experience, it reminds you that redundancy is not an ending. It is the beginning of a new chapter that you now have the opportunity to shape with fresh energy and renewed perspective.
Practical Tip:
Write down the three strongest emotions you are feeling right now, and next to each one, note what is triggering it. Then add one small action that helps you move forward, such as speaking to a trusted peer, reviewing your achievements, or taking a day to reset. This turns emotion into awareness, and awareness into momentum.
